古代拜年說的話
新年是一個有著特別意義的時刻,意味著一年的結(jié)束,新的一年全新開始。為了慶祝新年的到來,除了歡聚一堂外,大家還會相互道祝福、贈好禮。那么下面一起來了解下古代拜年說的話。
古時農(nóng)歷元旦,拜年賀節(jié)是一項主要活動。這天清早,臣僚們要到朝廷向帝王賀節(jié),同族的人要到祠堂舉行團(tuán)拜儀式。最為繁忙的,當(dāng)然還是親朋好友之間的登門拜年。有的人因種種原因,不能或不便外出,派子女出門代賀。即便這樣,一些清規(guī)戒律常常使人苦不堪言。于是,至宋代,為簡化手續(xù),方便使用,專門用于拜年的賀卡應(yīng)運而生。
賀卡最早稱“刺”,又稱名刺、名帖,大約出現(xiàn)在春秋戰(zhàn)國時代!逗鬂h書·井丹傳》稱井丹“性清高,未嘗脩刺候人!弊诔肌秷髣⒁徽蓵罚骸凹撮T者持刺入,而主人又不即出見,立廄中仆馬之間”。前者說傳主不送名帖之清高,后者則說送帖者見不著主人之尷尬。起初,“削札為刺,止于達(dá)名姓”。寫上賀詞,成為一種專門的“書面”拜年形式,是宋代及以后的事。在漫長的發(fā)展過程中,這賀卡名堂多多。
飛帖迎春。清·甘熙《白下瑣言》:“新歲以紅柬書名,互相投遞……謂之飛帖!惫湃肆(xí)俗,從正月初一至初五,都稱拜年;初六到十五,稱作拜晚年。盡管如此,但還是強調(diào)早:初一一早。是故,元代馬臻有《至節(jié)即事》詩:“天街曉色瑞煙濃,名紙相傳盡賀冬!彼坪蹩梢哉f,初一早晨,春城無處不“飛帖”。
名刺自投。相比于登門拜賀,自投名刺既表達(dá)了禮數(shù),又省卻了見面的繁文縟節(jié),寒暄客套,雙方都方便。但是,自投,數(shù)量不多還好說;太多,力所難及。同時,雖說是“親自”,以示鄭重,但在世俗看來,不免有失體面。唐代詩人元鴝重酬樂天詩》有云:“最笑近來黃叔度,自投名刺占陂湖!
望門投刺。每逢新年,如果上司、同僚、親朋太多,難以一一登門拜謁時,有錢有勢之家,會派仆人呈送一種二寸寬、三寸長的梅花箋紙,上面寫有受賀人姓名、住址及祝福語,代為拜年。明人陸蓉《菽園雜記》載:“拜年……如東西長安街,朝官居住最多,至此者不問識與不識,望門投刺……”
親筆手書。宋代,一些社會名流,喜歡用親筆手書的名帖相互拜年。小小名帖,雖比不上巨幅大軸,卻別具一格。于是,名家拜帖,歷來被視為珍品,每多收藏。據(jù)南宋張世南《游宦紀(jì)聞》記載,其家藏有北宋著名文人秦觀的一份拜帖,上款為“觀敬賀子允學(xué)士尊兄正旦”,下款是:“高郵秦觀手狀”。敬賀正旦,即今日“恭賀新年”的意思。
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非常經(jīng)典有深度的電影英文臺詞
1.一個人總要走陌生的路,看陌生的風(fēng)景,聽陌生的歌,然后在某個不經(jīng)意的瞬間,你會發(fā)現(xiàn),原本是費盡心機(jī)想要忘記的事情真的'就那么忘記了。
One is always on a strange road, watching strange scenery and listening to strange music. Then one day, you will find that the things you try hard to forget are already gone.
2.幸福,不是長生不老,不是大魚大肉,不是權(quán)傾朝野。幸福是每一個微小的生活愿望達(dá)成。當(dāng)你想吃的時候有得吃,想被愛的時候有人來愛你。
Happiness is not about being immortal nor having food or rights in ones hand. It’s about having each tiny wish come true, or having something to eat when you are hungry or having someones love when you need love.
3.愛情是燈,友情是影子,當(dāng)燈滅了,你會發(fā)現(xiàn)你的周圍都是影子。朋友,是在最后可以給你力量的人。
Love is a lamp, while friendship is the shadow. When the lamp is off,you will find the shadow everywhere. Friend is who can give you strength at last.
4.我愛你不是因為你是誰,而是我在你面前可以是誰。
I love you not for who you are, but for who I am before you.
5.愛情,要么讓人成熟,要么讓人墮落。
Love makes man grow up or sink down.
6.舉得起放得下的叫舉重,舉得起放不下的叫負(fù)重?上,大多數(shù)人的愛情,都是負(fù)重的。
If you can hold something up and put it down, it is called weight-lifting; if you can hold something up but can never put it down,its called burden-bearing. Pitifully, most of people are bearing heavy burdens when they are in love.
7.我們每個人都生活在各自的過去中,人們會用一分鐘的時間去認(rèn)識一個人,用一小時的時間去喜歡一個人,再用一天的時間去愛上一個人,到最后呢,卻要用一輩子的時間去忘記一個人。
We all live in the past. We take a minute to know someone, one hour to like someone, and one day to love someone, but the whole life to forget someone.
8.一個人一生可以愛上很多的人,等你獲得真正屬于你的幸福之后,你就會明白一起的傷痛其實是一種財富,它讓你學(xué)會更好地去把握和珍惜你愛的人。
One may fall in love with many people during the lifetime. When you finally get your own happiness, you will understand the previous sadness is kind of treasure, which makes you better to hold and cherish the people you love.
9.年輕的時候會想要談很多次戀愛,但是隨著年齡的增長,終于領(lǐng)悟到愛一個人,就算用一輩子的時間,還是會嫌不夠。慢慢地去了解這個人,體諒這個人,直到愛上為止,是需要有非常寬大的胸襟才行。
When you are young, you may want several love experiences. But as time goes on, you will realize that if you really love someone, the whole life will not be enough. You need time to know, to forgive and to love. All this needs a very big mind.
10.當(dāng)明天變成了今天成為了昨天,最后成為記憶里不5ucanyin.com再重要的某一天,我們突然發(fā)現(xiàn)自己在不知不覺中已被時間推著向前走,這不是靜止火車?yán),與相鄰列車交錯時,仿佛自己在前進(jìn)的錯覺,而是我們真實的在成長,在這件事里成了另一個自己。
When tomorrow turns in today, yesterday, and someday that no more important in your memory, we suddenly realize that we are pushed forward by time. This is not a train in still in which you may feel forward when another train goes by. It is the truth that weve all grown up. And we become different.
11.離開我就別安慰我,要知道每一次縫補也會遭遇穿刺的痛。
If you leave me, please dont comfort me because each sewing has to meet stinging pain.
12.曾經(jīng)擁有的,不要忘記。不能得到的,更要珍惜。屬于自己的,不要放棄。已經(jīng)失去的,留作回憶。
Don’t forget the things you once you owned. Treasure the things youcan’t get. Dont give up the things that belong to you and keep those lost things in memory.
13.我喜歡并習(xí)慣了對變化的東西保持著距離,這樣才會知道什么是最不會被時間拋棄的準(zhǔn)則。比如愛一個人,充滿變數(shù),我于是后退一步,靜靜的看著,直到看見真誠的感情。
I love and am used to keeping a distance with those changed things.Only in this way can I know what will not be abandoned by time. For example, when you love someone, changes are all around. Then I step backward and watching it silently, then I see the true feelings.
14.男人的愛是俯視而生,而女人的愛是仰視而生。如果愛情像座山,那么男人越往上走可以俯視的女人就越多,而女人越往上走可以仰視的男人就越少。
Men love from overlooking while women love from looking up. If love is a mountain, then if men go up, more women they will see while women will see fewer men.
15.好的愛情是你通過一個人看到整個世界,壞的愛情是你為了一個人舍棄世界。
Good love makes you see the whole world from one person while bad love makes you abandon the whole world for one person.
16.在自己面前,應(yīng)該一直留有一個地方,獨自留在那里。然后去愛。不知道是什么,不知道是誰,不知道如何去愛,也不知道可以愛多久。只是等待一次愛情,也許永遠(yuǎn)都沒有人?墒,這種等待,就是愛情本身。
We shall always save a place for ourselves, only for ourselves. And then begin to love. Have no idea of what it is, who he is, how to love or how long it will be. Just wait for one love. Maybe no one will come out, but this kind of waiting is the love itself.
17.有誰不曾為那暗戀而痛苦?我們總以為那份癡情很重,很重,是世上最重的重量。有一天,暮然回首,我們才發(fā)現(xiàn),它一直都是很輕,很輕的。我們以為愛的很深,很深,來日歲月,會讓你知道,它不過很淺,很淺。最深和最重的愛,必須和時日一起成長。
Is there anyone who hasnt suffered for the secret love? We always think that love is very heavy, heavy and could be the heaviest thing in the world. But one day, when you look back, you suddenly realize that its always light, light. We all thought love was very deep, but in fact its very thin. The deepest and heaviest love must grow up withthe time.
18.在這個世界上,只有真正快樂的男人,才能帶給女人真正的快樂。
In this world, only those men who really feel happy can give women happiness
19.女人如果不性感,就要感性;如果沒有感性,就要理性;如果沒有理性,就要有自知之明;如果連這個都沒有了,她只有不幸。
If a woman is not sexy, she needs emotion; if she is not emotional, she needs reason; if she is not reasonable, she has to know herself clearly. coz only she has is misfortune.
20.一段不被接受的愛情,需要的不是傷心,而是時間,一段可以用來遺忘的時間。一顆被深深傷了的心,需要的不是同情,而是理解。
An unacceptable love needs no sorrow but time- sometime for forgetting.A badly-hurt heart needs no sympathy but understanding.
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