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讓班級(jí)團(tuán)結(jié)的話
一般來(lái)說(shuō),有威嚴(yán)的班長(zhǎng),管的班級(jí)都不會(huì)很吵。所以有的時(shí)候?qū)Υ麄円欢ú荒苁周洝?/p>
當(dāng)班長(zhǎng)很難,不過(guò)能夠當(dāng)好班長(zhǎng),也是很有樂(lè)趣的。所以不要把管同學(xué)當(dāng)作一種任務(wù),而是要有一種自覺(jué)的責(zé)任心。
只要用心,就會(huì)做好的。
首先找個(gè)時(shí)間在班上把班里不團(tuán)結(jié)的情況委婉的說(shuō)出來(lái),然后表明你要解決這問(wèn)題的想法,這樣班上同學(xué)心里都知道你要干什么,都會(huì)有向你"倒苦水"的愿望...接下來(lái)
第一步,要了解到大家是不是有和對(duì)方交往的欲望,如果有,那就具備了基本條件;如果不想和對(duì)方交往(一般不會(huì)有這種情況),要找出原因,把原因?qū)懺诩埳?
第二步,各個(gè)擊破:你要解除大家的心理障礙,找出他們(她們)不喜歡和對(duì)放交往的原因,把原因?qū)懺诩埳?
第三步,根據(jù)找到的原因"對(duì)癥下藥",一般分為以下情況:
1,女生覺(jué)得男生不值得交往,不是她們心中的男生形象.那就要明確女生心中的"男生形象"是什么樣子的,記錄下來(lái).
2,男生覺(jué)得女生沒(méi)氣質(zhì),高傲等,不是他們心中的MM形象.同樣,要明確男生心中的"MM形象"到底指什么.
3,綜合分析得到的資料,找出問(wèn)題的癥結(jié).
4,組織一次班會(huì),讓大家明白班會(huì)的目的,這是成功與否的關(guān)鍵,那就要看你的口才了,能不能把大家弄到一起,來(lái)面對(duì)這個(gè)問(wèn)題.在班會(huì)上把你的目的和得到的資料公示,這時(shí)全般就會(huì)"吵"起來(lái),出現(xiàn)這中情況時(shí),你就成功了一辦,因?yàn)檫@以為著問(wèn)題在開(kāi)始得到解決了.然后全般集體展開(kāi)討論,針?shù)h相對(duì)的把"苦水"倒出來(lái),指出對(duì)方的弱點(diǎn),這樣男女生都知道對(duì)方怎么想的了.最后由你提出:為了解決我們班男女不團(tuán)結(jié)的現(xiàn)象,我提議,由男生代表發(fā)言,要求他為了班級(jí)體的榮譽(yù),盡量改正.女生也要表態(tài).這樣為下一步打基礎(chǔ).
5,和別班搞一次籃球挑戰(zhàn)賽.先是男生,女生因?yàn)橹氨磉^(guò)態(tài),不好意思不參加.接下來(lái)是女生,男生看到之前女生都為自己加油了,一定回去給女生打氣的.
6,做了上面五步的話,你就成功了一大半了.接下來(lái)還有一段緩沖期,類似的活動(dòng)你要經(jīng)常搞,大型的,小型的都可以.但是有個(gè)原則:必須和班級(jí)體的榮譽(yù)掛鉤!!!因?yàn)檎l(shuí)都不想不顧班級(jí)榮譽(yù)!!!
7,在做上面的幾項(xiàng)的同時(shí),你得注意自己的方式,充分利用大家對(duì)你的信任。
我覺(jué)得就我們班的情況看。首先必須讓每個(gè)人都樹(shù)立起一種觀念：我們是一家人。任何力量都不可以打擊到我們。其次。就是班干的責(zé)任。這些人必須平等的對(duì)待每一個(gè)人。不可因?yàn)槠渌蚓瓦^(guò)輕或過(guò)重的處理事件。然后同學(xué)之間更要有責(zé)任心。只有當(dāng)這個(gè)團(tuán)隊(duì)的每一個(gè)人都有了責(zé)任心。這個(gè)團(tuán)隊(duì)才值得大家去維護(hù)。這個(gè)班極才能夠團(tuán)結(jié)起來(lái)。如果覺(jué)得我說(shuō)的對(duì)你要給我采納嗷= =#!畢竟肥水不流了外人田你說(shuō)是吧。
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非常經(jīng)典有深度的電影英文臺(tái)詞
1.一個(gè)人總要走陌生的路，看陌生的風(fēng)景，聽(tīng)陌生的歌，然后在某個(gè)不經(jīng)意的瞬間，你會(huì)發(fā)現(xiàn)，原本是費(fèi)盡心機(jī)想要忘記的事情真的就那么忘記了。
One is always on a strange road, watching strange scenery and listening to strange music. Then one day, you will find that the things you try hard to forget are already gone.
2.幸福，不是長(zhǎng)生不老，不是大魚(yú)大肉，不是權(quán)傾朝野。幸福是每一個(gè)微小的生活愿望達(dá)成。當(dāng)你想吃的時(shí)候有得吃，想被愛(ài)的時(shí)候有人來(lái)愛(ài)你。
Happiness is not about being immortal nor having food or rights in one's hand. It’s about having each tiny wish come true, or having something to eat when you are hungry or having someone's love when you need love.
3.愛(ài)情是燈，友情是影子，當(dāng)燈滅了，你會(huì)發(fā)現(xiàn)你的周圍都是影子。朋友，是在最后可以給你力量的人。
Love is a lamp, while friendship is the shadow. When the lamp is off,you will find the shadow everywhere. Friend is who can give you strength at last.
4.我愛(ài)你不是因?yàn)槟闶钦l(shuí)，而是我在你面前可以是誰(shuí)。
I love you not for who you are, but for who I am before you.
5.愛(ài)情，要么讓人成熟，要么讓人墮落。
Love makes man grow up or sink down.
6.舉得起放得下的叫舉重，舉得起放不下的叫負(fù)重。可惜，大多數(shù)人的愛(ài)情，都是負(fù)重的。
If you can hold something up and put it down, it is called weight-lifting; if you can hold something up but can never put it down,it's called burden-bearing. Pitifully, most of people are bearing heavy burdens when they are in love.
7.我們每個(gè)人都生活在各自的過(guò)去中，人們會(huì)用一分鐘的時(shí)間去認(rèn)識(shí)一個(gè)人，用一小時(shí)的時(shí)間去喜歡一個(gè)人，再用一天的時(shí)間去愛(ài)上一個(gè)人，到最后呢，卻要用一輩子的時(shí)間去忘記一個(gè)人。
We all live in the past. We take a minute to know someone, one hour to like someone, and one day to love someone, but the whole life to forget someone.
8.一個(gè)人一生可以愛(ài)上很多的人，等你獲得真正屬于你的幸福之后，你就會(huì)明白一起的傷痛其實(shí)是一種財(cái)富，它讓你學(xué)會(huì)更好地去把握和珍惜你愛(ài)的人。
One may fall in love with many people during the lifetime. When you finally get your own happiness, you will understand the previous sadness is kind of treasure, which makes you better to hold and cherish the people you love.
9.年輕的時(shí)候會(huì)想要談很多次戀愛(ài)，但是隨著年齡的增長(zhǎng)，終于領(lǐng)悟到愛(ài)一個(gè)人，就算用一輩子的時(shí)間，還是會(huì)嫌不夠。慢慢地去了解這個(gè)人，體諒這個(gè)人，直到愛(ài)上為止，是需要有非常寬大的胸襟才行。
When you are young, you may want several love experiences. But as time goes on, you will realize that if you really love someone, the whole life will not be enough. You need time to know, to forgive and to love. All this needs a very big mind.
10.當(dāng)明天變成了今天成為了昨天，最后成為記憶里不5ucanyin.com再重要的某一天，我們突然發(fā)現(xiàn)自己在不知不覺(jué)中已被時(shí)間推著向前走，這不是靜止火車?yán)�，與相鄰列車交錯(cuò)時(shí)，仿佛自己在前進(jìn)的錯(cuò)覺(jué)，而是我們真實(shí)的在成長(zhǎng)，在這件事里成了另一個(gè)自己。
When tomorrow turns in today, yesterday, and someday that no more important in your memory, we suddenly realize that we are pushed forward by time. This is not a train in still in which you may feel forward when another train goes by. It is the truth that we've all grown up. And we become different.
11.離開(kāi)我就別安慰我，要知道每一次縫補(bǔ)也會(huì)遭遇穿刺的痛。
If you leave me, please don't comfort me because each sewing has to meet stinging pain.
12.曾經(jīng)擁有的，不要忘記。不能得到的，更要珍惜。屬于自己的，不要放棄。已經(jīng)失去的，留作回憶。
Don’t forget the things you once you owned. Treasure the things youcan’t get. Don't give up the things that belong to you and keep those lost things in memory.
13.我喜歡并習(xí)慣了對(duì)變化的東西保持著距離，這樣才會(huì)知道什么是最不會(huì)被時(shí)間拋棄的準(zhǔn)則。比如愛(ài)一個(gè)人，充滿變數(shù)，我于是后退一步，靜靜的看著，直到看見(jiàn)真誠(chéng)的感情。
I love and am used to keeping a distance with those changed things.Only in this way can I know what will not be abandoned by time. For example, when you love someone, changes are all around. Then I step backward and watching it silently, then I see the true feelings.
14.男人的愛(ài)是俯視而生，而女人的愛(ài)是仰視而生。如果愛(ài)情像座山，那么男人越往上走可以俯視的女人就越多，而女人越往上走可以仰視的男人就越少。
Men love from overlooking while women love from looking up. If love is a mountain, then if men go up, more women they will see while women will see fewer men.
15.好的愛(ài)情是你通過(guò)一個(gè)人看到整個(gè)世界，壞的愛(ài)情是你為了一個(gè)人舍棄世界。
Good love makes you see the whole world from one person while bad love makes you abandon the whole world for one person.
16.在自己面前，應(yīng)該一直留有一個(gè)地方，獨(dú)自留在那里。然后去愛(ài)。不知道是什么，不知道是誰(shuí)，不知道如何去愛(ài)，也不知道可以愛(ài)多久。只是等待一次愛(ài)情，也許永遠(yuǎn)都沒(méi)有人�？墒�，這種等待，就是愛(ài)情本身。
We shall always save a place for ourselves, only for ourselves. And then begin to love. Have no idea of what it is, who he is, how to love or how long it will be. Just wait for one love. Maybe no one will come out, but this kind of waiting is the love itself.
17.有誰(shuí)不曾為那暗戀而痛苦?我們總以為那份癡情很重，很重，是世上最重的重量。有一天，暮然回首，我們才發(fā)現(xiàn)，它一直都是很輕，很輕的。我們以為愛(ài)的很深，很深，來(lái)日歲月，會(huì)讓你知道，它不過(guò)很淺，很淺。最深和最重的愛(ài)，必須和時(shí)日一起成長(zhǎng)。
Is there anyone who hasn't suffered for the secret love? We always think that love is very heavy, heavy and could be the heaviest thing in the world. But one day, when you look back, you suddenly realize that it's always light, light. We all thought love was very deep, but in fact it's very thin. The deepest and heaviest love must grow up withthe time.
18.在這個(gè)世界上，只有真正快樂(lè)的男人，才能帶給女人真正的快樂(lè)。
In this world, only those men who really feel happy can give women happiness
19.女人如果不性感，就要感性;如果沒(méi)有感性，就要理性;如果沒(méi)有理性，就要有自知之明;如果連這個(gè)都沒(méi)有了，她只有不幸。
If a woman is not sexy, she needs emotion; if she is not emotional, she needs reason; if she is not reasonable, she has to know herself clearly. coz only she has is misfortune.
20.一段不被接受的愛(ài)情，需要的不是傷心，而是時(shí)間，一段可以用來(lái)遺忘的時(shí)間。一顆被深深傷了的心，需要的不是同情，而是理解。
An unacceptable love needs no sorrow but time- sometime for forgetting.A badly-hurt heart needs no sympathy but understanding.
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